If there are no absolute truths, then there are only feelings that come closest to the truth. In this sense, compassion is the only true feeling. And even if there are things that are perceived as absolute truths, like God or souls, there are plenty who don’t believe in them. Is it an absolute truth … Continue reading Compassion: A Weapon of Peace
Self-Pity: The First and Last Delusion
I struggle to avoid self-pity. I would rather be self-reproachful, which has lent its own challenges. But I would rather believe that I’m nothing special and be right than the opposite and be wrong. This wrong belief is the basis of self-pity: the idea that, among all people, my unique inner qualities mean that I … Continue reading Self-Pity: The First and Last Delusion
The Bear Season 3: Interpersonal Drama Dominates
Season Three of this epic, mythic series zooms in on the more pedantic and trivial while still providing some insight into its deeply sympathetic characters.
What “Radicalism” Means Under Neoliberalism
We live in an age where these individuals are considered "radical" or "extreme": Here are some thoughts. The idea of "radicalism" has been co-opted from times of old — say, pre-World War II. Back then, it meant something along the lines of "a belief in the necessity of altering the current mode of production, economic … Continue reading What “Radicalism” Means Under Neoliberalism
Can We Separate the Art From the Artist?
Someone recently asked me if it is possible to separate the weirdo that is Mel Gibson from his films, specifically Braveheart. Is it possible to like a person's work if we know him to be "problematic" in some way? And those are not "scare quotes." Some things actually are problematic.Before even beginning to argue whether … Continue reading Can We Separate the Art From the Artist?
I bought my first cologne because of Clive Owen
I've spent many more combined minutes in my life trying to look like somebody rather than trying to be somebody. It's funny how easy it is to locate your best self in products at the store rather than within you. It's as though we need these products to realize ourselves. Maybe we do. Maybe we … Continue reading I bought my first cologne because of Clive Owen
